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we_invented_post-its t1_j8dcj38 wrote

Reply to comment by gmrpnk21 in [Image] In the end, they'll judge you anyway. So, do what you want. by sylsau

I find it odd that so many people are so eager to shoot down motivational quotes on a sub about getting motivated. It’s like hanging out in the labor and delivery ward of the hospital and reminding all the new moms that everyone dies someday. Like, yeah… that’s true… but like, is that necessary in any way? Naw. Not really. Not at all.

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gmrpnk21 t1_j8ddsdl wrote

Maybe because this isn't motivational, it's enabling. "Do whatever you want" isn't beneficial, or conducive to being better. Pointing out that something is nonsense and doesn't fit a sub is pretty common, regardless of which one something is posted in.

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we_invented_post-its t1_j8diohe wrote

My point is, if you don’t think people should be assholes, then why put a negative spin on a positive post in a sub dedicated to motivation?

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gmrpnk21 t1_j8dnppw wrote

Because it isnt positive, and it's detrimental "advice". You're judged by actions. Strive to do better and don't worry about what other people say about it. As long as you are working towards continual improvement, you're always being a better you.

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we_invented_post-its t1_j8dok4j wrote

That’s your perception.

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gmrpnk21 t1_j8dvb6u wrote

No, it's reality. "Do whatever you want" is terrible advice. Hard stop. It's right up there with "positive vibes only" and "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all". That's not how people grow or overcome anything.

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gmrpnk21 t1_j8fule9 wrote

No, I don't subscribe to toxic positivity or stupid statements telling you to do whatever you want. You'll be judged by people for what you do, and that's sometimes all that's keeping someone from doing terrible shit. That's a fact, not an opinion.

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