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nyxnars t1_j5ejufa wrote

Oh! Guess my radiation poisoning is cured!

Edit: op is a bot

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HonestPonder t1_j5endq9 wrote

This is the type of stuff that gave the NXIVM cult so much traction and power over its members

“If it hurts, it’s your fault.”

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desperaste t1_j5exv3m wrote

I have newborn twins who won’t sleep at night. I estimate that my insomnia is due to that. I have no power to revoke it. Stupid quote

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mykdee311 t1_j5f931o wrote

That advise is what got Russell Crow thru his first Gladiator fight

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mathaiser t1_j5fke42 wrote

It’s not actually hard at all…. What’s hard is making it feel hard.

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Suntzu6656 t1_j5ggkik wrote

Excellent quote

I don't listen to it enough but I have The Meditations audio book on my phone.

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Amr528 t1_j5ggzg1 wrote

Because emotions are so easy to control...

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TwainVonnegut t1_j5gldbj wrote

“Resistance to the unpleasant situation is the root of suffering.”

~Ram Dass

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Sovereign444 t1_j5glues wrote

Sure it’s easier said than done, but it’s an effort that’s worth making. Something being difficult doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try, that’s an awful defeatist attitude to have.

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chance_waters t1_j5gmy16 wrote

No, you don't. The body and brain are an interlinked machine, most thought is automatic, but more importantly most feelings are cause and effect. At an extreme end of this spectrum, if you're hallucinating due to dehydration do you have control over that? No. Consciously speaking we can take stock and redirect emotions, when given the opportunity to do so

Humans give themselves way too much credit for the power of consciousness, we are biological machines running on train tracks

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chance_waters t1_j5gxnfn wrote

It's not about what gives me comfort, it's about reality. If it helps you sleep at night to believe your experience of life, emotional reactions etc. are a result of your conscious mind, despite all evidence pointing to the contrary, then who am I to tell you otherwise.

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SouthernSapphic t1_j5h7jct wrote

We need to have a bot on every post reminding people that no advice fits every situation.

I don't think OP is asking you to accept injustice or ignore radiation poisoning or whatever.

Maybe it's something to remind myself when I have trouble picking my battles, and I'm about to get worked up over something inconsequential. Or when I paint a hopeless picture for myself out of very little info, and I don't want to try anymore.

Its just a reminder that, for some of us, our judgment is doing more harm than good.

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rcwt1217 t1_j5h7ycr wrote

unfortunately this one is not true

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[deleted] t1_j5hbqj1 wrote

Not at "any moment". Some energies take time to relocate from one's psyche.

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Amr528 t1_j5hbxt7 wrote

Oh, thank you. My life is changed. Did I say you shouldn't try...?

Also, thank you that condescending defeatist comment at the end. A real good way to convince people of your opinion.

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Amr528 t1_j5hdl1v wrote

I'm more annoyed that you'd suggest people don't know something that simple. It's condescending. It's kind of universally known that literally fucking everything takes practice.

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Black_n_Neon t1_j5hdsvz wrote

You’re choosing to take it like that. I simply said it takes practice. Idk why you’re getting so upset. If you don’t like people responding to your comments then don’t leave comments in public forums.

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sleepysprite t1_j5hyq8h wrote

Triggered a lot of people's pain bodies with this one 😂

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SwampWaffle85 t1_j5i1ug3 wrote

This quote obviously doesn't apply to literally every single possible scenario. Learn to interpret things and apply them appropriately. This would mean things like scenarios you have little info on but are getting worked up over unnecessarily. Obviously things like radiation poisoning and being robbed are outside of your control.

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jera111 t1_j5i2uzb wrote

My brain needed this! Ya hear that brain? Yeah im talking to you, fucking grey dont matter!

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[deleted] t1_j5i5tfe wrote

"Sir, the spear sticking out of my side came from the enemies hand."

"Soldier, it's all in your head. the spear was external, just breathe through it"

"I'm like, really losing a lot of blood here. "

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louderharderfaster t1_j5icsya wrote

Once I confronted the part of me that was offended by this idea it really did change everything for the better. It is NOT something you can tell/should someone who is feeling acute pain but it does give you the equanimity required to better help them.

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[deleted] t1_j5ix46q wrote

To be fair, there are some people who are forced to sleep on construction sites with all the noise. I think even noise can be filtered out if you are extremely sleepy.

But I think Marcus Aurelius refers to situations that can't be changed and must be handled. We have only the power to react the occurrence of actions is not in our control.

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[deleted] t1_j5ixc2y wrote

I mean nobody knows what another is going through but the only thing one can do is try or maybe not. Both don't matter in the end. We live a story where only the ending is known.

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[deleted] t1_j5ixk05 wrote

There are two people who go through the same situation. Both have different personalities. Do you think both process pain and other emotions similarly? No. To one an experience is but trivial whereas to the other it's life-changing.

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michron98 t1_j5ju7zf wrote

>Humans give themselves way too much credit for the power of consciousness, we are biological machines running on train tracks

I think the power of human consciousness is that we can set the switches. Which is pretty powerful in its own, don't you think?

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