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skunkadelic t1_j45b6cy wrote

Don't let people linger in your life if you no longer want them to be a part of it.

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Old_Red_Alligator t1_j46sv31 wrote

Yeah, this should be the post title!

You re not lingering in someone s life if he/she is not honest with you about how he/she feels, you re just being deceived.

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I_na_na t1_j484jlp wrote

Keep telling yourself it is true. Some people are more direct and some people rely on more subtle ways to signal, that you are no longer welcome in their life. Your inability to recognize it, is not their problem. I met multiple people, that couldn't let go because, the signals from their partner weren't “clear”. Have some dignity and let them be. If they want to be with you, they will show it.

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jennialy t1_j46zuf9 wrote

Yep!!! These days an old friend messaged me, i didn't even had his number anymore, but I felt sure I didn't want to have him back into my life, so I just blocked him :D best decision I made for sure

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plaid-blazer t1_j47rvow wrote

Absolutely, but it goes both ways. Sometimes you try to tell people you’re not interested and they don’t want to accept it.

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KnightOwl1408 t1_j4eltfo wrote

Sometimes it's worse than that. They'll only call you when they need you and entice you into coming back into their life, you then start over and somehow end up back where you started in a few weeks or months.

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