Basketguard t1_j6o0pgf wrote on January 31, 2023 at 6:09 PM

Whenever I'm about to do something, I think, "Would an idiot do that?" And if they would, I do not do that thing.

mitsel_r t1_j6n7f6u wrote on January 31, 2023 at 3:07 PM

Sounds nice but here’s the problem: my situation is so messed up that I have no idea what an extraordinary person in my situation would do.

DirefulEvolution t1_j6oa9ru wrote on January 31, 2023 at 7:08 PM

This is exactly what I thought too. How is this motivating?

Insomnambulant t1_j6nm6q3 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 4:41 PM

I think it’s better to take a few minutes out to reflect on whether your decisions align with what you know to be right and true for yourself. Be honest and strive for incremental progress. You’ll do great.

imasensation t1_j6oiglb wrote on January 31, 2023 at 7:59 PM

So lie to yourself so others believe your lie more? Lol. I’m unsubbing these do nothing but delete my motivation

guttengroot t1_j6p1kal wrote on January 31, 2023 at 9:56 PM

More like fake it till you make it.

imasensation t1_j6p6rqk wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:30 PM

You never make it lol. You just get really good at faking it. Thus lying to yourself

guttengroot t1_j6pb4g6 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:59 PM

You sound like you're in a bad spot. Hope you get help.

imasensation t1_j6pbbr6 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:00 PM

Thanks. I’m doing fantastic lol

guttengroot t1_j6pj8fc wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:54 PM

Cool, so maybe don't spend your time discouraging others.

imasensation t1_j6pjeae wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:55 PM

Thanks for the suggestion

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