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coyote-1 t1_j264xdt wrote

By contrast, many who claim to be empathic are, in reality, anything but. I know one person who says she’s an empath, says she takes on the pain of everyone around her… yet she can never read the room to decipher the moods of the folks in it, and therefore often comes across as a clod. In reality she’s an emotional vampire, feeding off the pain of others.

So be sure that being too empathic is the actual issue before charging down this path.

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atomic_peanut t1_j26ep0z wrote

Similar anecdotal experience, everyone I've met who's claimed to be an empath has been a manipulator

The most authentic empathetic people I've met you'd think the sun shined out their arse they're that nice.

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