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[deleted] t1_j04iu64 wrote

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dedicated-pedestrian t1_j05bs9e wrote

I dunno. I'm pretty happy without romantic involvement or seeking it oit. Maybe I'll be interested later, but for now life's good.

Maybe it's just a matter of wanting it or not, I dunno.

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kiki7865 t1_j04xv32 wrote

I disagree. Honestly I would work on just loving yourself, having healthy and fulfilling friendships, and making your life full of things that make you happy. I’m not discounting your desire for intimacy, but you truly have to give yourself all the love you need first to be an asset to someone else. And I say that as someone on the “right side of the bus” without ever having dated. My worth isn’t measured by other people thinking that I am worthy of their affection.

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California_4ever t1_j04mkll wrote

I have faith that you’ll find someone.

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UtCanisACorio t1_j04p2o0 wrote

not if I isolate and stop interacting people, which is what I've been doing

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melodicprophet t1_j051ix5 wrote

You are aware of it. So change it. You know where it leads. Try a new road. Even if you don’t know where you’re going…that’s a great way to get somewhere you’ve never been.

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California_4ever t1_j04rv1a wrote

When I met my person, I was not social. I met him at work. That honestly was the only way I seen people. We became best friends at work. He was the person that got me out of the house when we would see each other. He knew I was battling with depression and had left an abusive relationship years before him.

So yes, I believe that it could happen.

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