I tried to teach my brother this when the count to 10 and take deep breaths method didn't work. My method worked for 3 days, then when my mother heard what I did she said I was overruling her parenting, YES IM OVERRULING IT, YOUR CHILD TOLD YOU IT WASN'T WORKING AND YOU PROVIDED NO ALTERNATIVE. THEN YOU DISCIPLINE THEM WITH A BELT WHEN THEY MISBEHAVE, AND WONDER WHY THEY HATE YOU GROWING UP.