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MrCalPoly t1_izdku1e wrote

Agree with everything except last part....All love is conditional.

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Military_Reject t1_izdozvk wrote

Could YOU be all those things for someone else?

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I_T_Gamer t1_izdzqey wrote

The idea that having a kid makes you a mother or father on its own is a disgrace to good parents everywhere.... Supporting, caring for and nurturing your child is what makes you a parent.

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Raddyrode t1_ize8gkl wrote

You find that person and then they leave you. The trick is to not bother finding at all

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shawn4126 t1_ize8ken wrote

Be a person someone would be proud to have, scared to lose, would fight for, appreciates and respects, cares for and would love unconditionally.

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Wearedid t1_izec00k wrote

This does not exist.

Or at least I have been unable to see it or find it.

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M0rqu1ng4 t1_izeczf1 wrote

Having a kid does make you a parent, though - it's the literal dictionary definition. Supporting, caring for and nurturing your child is what makes you a good parent...

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Turbulent-Fox-732 t1_izejovw wrote

People that have, or have had, living offspring are by definition a mother or a father.

Everything you just listed is the type of relationship you should have with your parents. It is absolutely not the kind of relationship you should have with a partner. That is not what love between two healthy, well adjusted adults looks like..

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Fr0zB1te t1_izekaii wrote

Gonna disagree about "scared to lose" - if any relationship based (or have it as its basis) on being scared of something - they are doomed. Healthy relationship is not about looking at eachother, its about looking in same direction

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