What a stupid thing to say full of assumptions. I can tell you like having your say at people don't you, it would look good as well if it wasn't so misplaced. Your welcome to your opinions but you have no idea of what happens this end. I have a great business, a big house and all our needs are looked after. Well not all of mine but the 3 girls are fine. We have it better than most. I have been so busy with work I haven't been able to get to the gym as my body can't do both. I'd switched to a few beers every other evening. This over a year has crept into 'most nights' and sometimes 8 or more. Everyone is doing well and very happy including myself however I have some more to do on the house and over the last 6months not a lot has been done. This coincides with drinking. So I have decided to give that up and focus on more healthy things, bringing more energy and more free money to the situation. I'm back at the gym albeit gently because work has settled down a bit thank god. The issue the other day with my children that I feel guilty about was minor but a warning which I have taken stock of and acted on.