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Trylks t1_iwgx37z wrote

Reminder: given any income level, savings (or investments) and expenses are complementary.

When you see someone spending a lot of money, that doesn't necessarily mean that they are rich, they are in fact making themselves poorer by spending money, and it is hard to know if they have that money, or they are using credit, i.e. money they hope to have, as with a credit card.

The way to be wealthy, or rich, is spending less and earning more. Rich people spend very little when compared with their earnings. Wealth and frugality go together, usually more than people think.

Luxury items are not so much a symbol of wealth, but a symbol of poor criteria.

A recession is coming. Take care of being safe and fine, and not about someone else's opinions about the brands of the things you use.

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carveyourself t1_iwh3qp2 wrote

That's good , keep patience god plans is better than we think ☺️

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Silentlaughter84 t1_iwh5o2g wrote

This is true. When I stopped comparing myself to others or what they had, I felt a lot more accomplished.

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[deleted] t1_iwieoxj wrote

somtime u get big dick small ball other time u get small dick big ball s

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Obi-Patates t1_iwinc7q wrote

Aaaahhh yes, i love me my crippling depression, debt, CPTSD, feelings of worthlessness and how i make myself sick with how shitty a person i am.

Thank you for reminding me about the good things, r/getmotivated.

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StreetHunter01 t1_iwj0jm2 wrote

Am I the only one to see a half face between the carotts?

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Jak_n_Dax t1_iwj3utu wrote

I’ve got a couple friends that make about $10k more than me, but they don’t have shit to their names.

Meanwhile I’ve got a 401k, a couple of HYSA’s(one specifically for a house down payment).

My income will increase, but I’ve got the habits and foundation to build a lifetime of wealth when that happens, and it feels good. I just think of that every time I see my friends blowing money on toys all the time.

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StreetHunter01 t1_iwj5st3 wrote

Half face with a boxing glove left hook that already hit the target! There!

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Trylks t1_iwj9w21 wrote

Exactly.

I know the message from the title is more about the inside like “mind & soul” of a person.

But I think the image is perfect to explain financial responsibility, and how wealth is defined by assets (under ground), and not by expenses (the visible leaves).

The fable about the Ant and the Grasshopper may be relevant soon, with the recession expected for 2023.

PD: An important lesson, because intuitively people expect proportional expenses and assets, but the reality is counterintuitive, more expenses leaves less savings to put in assets.

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Jammintoad t1_iwjzwre wrote

Unfortunately we can't know if people have that internal value before knowing someone. So we as humans tend to treat the bigger leaf people better in every day interactions. It's only when you know someone a while that having a lot internally is actually useful

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Pipupipupi t1_iwljdan wrote

Sure, but the pic is still trying to compare carrot size. It shouldn't matter either way

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