A positive attitude, not a delusion.

The positive everything people give me the creeps. No there is no silver lining that my dog is dead and my grandma didn't live long enough to see my children born, I'm balding and suffering from chronic migraines. It sucks but I'm a fucking adult, I'll get over it.

My perspective is accept my reality and realize, I'm fortunate I've got what I have, it really could be worse.