I think that you have a good plan. Once you are feeling like you have things settled and you have made the improvements you want to see in your life, be cautious and discerning about dating. Women aren't all no-good. People of both genders are susceptible to overlooking character flaws in those they are attracted to. It is human nature.

You will eventually find someone better, and you will later see that the first relationship was not that great. Early relationships are often shallow and don't withstand the winds of change. Too many get married too young, then wonder why they can't get along when the passion is gone.