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sptlssmnd t1_jbylh02 wrote

Reply to comment by k4Anarky in [Image] Everything is working in divine right order.. by JettMe_Red

I feel this. Like being in a comfortable, but ultimately unhappy relationship. The change is rough and you’ll “emotionally bleed” for a while, but sometimes it’s for the best.

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No_Key_6276 t1_jbze2tt wrote

Thank you for the comment. Doing exactly this

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sptlssmnd t1_jbzkrdg wrote

Me as well. Hang in there, even though it seems rough now and you may miss the other person dearly, it’s change that is needed for a much happier future.

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forte_bass t1_jc08v9f wrote

Been there, hold strong. You probably know why it needs to be done; write down some of the reasons while you're motivated, so when you're inevitably feeling weak later you can look at it and remind yourself why it was the right choice.

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sptlssmnd t1_jc0ht0h wrote

I agree with this method. Surprisingly I have written a list in the form of questions to remind myself how unhappy I’d be if I went back. So I recommend others in my current situation to give that a try as well to reinforce the change, because it will be very tempting to find those old comforts again.

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forte_bass t1_jc08uns wrote

Been there, hold strong. You probably know why it needs to be done; write down some of the reasons while you're motivated, so when you're inevitably feeling weak later you can look at it and remind yourself why it was the right choice.

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