VexualThrall t1_jc0eg0c wrote on March 13, 2023 at 2:54 AM

Reply to comment by ValyrianJedi in [Image] "Signs of personal growth" by Butterflies_Books

You'll understand eventually. None of those truly matter, and mental growth is realising that.

ValyrianJedi t1_jc0gnd8 wrote on March 13, 2023 at 3:12 AM

I'm sorry, but pretending like it never matters whether you impress anyone is just silly

VexualThrall t1_jdw78v9 wrote on March 27, 2023 at 5:21 PM

Who would you need to impress? Work? Not necessary whatsoever. Lover? Technically, it's not necessary. You can be loved without being impressive. I'm struggling to understand where at all impressing somebody would be important.

ValyrianJedi t1_je54je2 wrote on March 29, 2023 at 2:12 PM

> Work? Not necessary whatsoever.

It is absolutely necessary

VexualThrall t1_jeawkdg wrote on March 30, 2023 at 6:05 PM

How? Truly, I'd like to know why it's necessary. I've never been in a situation where it is, and I've still achieved promotions at past jobs.