Your statement reproduced below is inherently sexist.

"Whos telling woman to empower themselves and poat naked or sleep with man as they please?"

The implication being that:

1 women should not be empowered, or even encouraged to have power.

2 someone besides the woman themselves should decide who they sleep with.

So you are saying women shouldn't even have the power to decide who enters their bodies.

I don't know how much more telling a statement can be.