My husband and I have been together for 17yrs 3 kids - 12, 4, 5months We’ll be married 4 yrs sometime in September. We didn’t want to get married. We had gotten into church for a short time and because we were volunteering to run their audio/visuals booth they forced us to get married. We no longer go to that money hungry church - not even sure if we believe - but we’re still married 😂