I think you'd be just fine, for all the reasons listed by my peers. Are there racist/homophobic people in CT? Absolutely. But I'd say probably fewer than where you're coming from, and they're also probably quieter. People tend to just mind their own business here. If I might make a recommendation though, check out Middletown. It's got a fun/funky Main Street and is very LGBTQI friendly. They host a big Pride parade every June!