You all sound as if you like some games! Have you considered board games? There's some great game shops around that I can recommend. I think they often have social hours where you can pay a little and come in and try a bunch of games, meet some nice people, etc.

Oh also Pickleball? My partner and I also just moved to what sounds like the same area, and we're going to be checking this out in the sprint:

https://www.westhartfordpickleballclub.com/home