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IndicationOver t1_j5smflk wrote

So your long distance bf is moving to CT to be closer to you and you don't plan on living with him?

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chickennugar OP t1_j5t9hff wrote

we've both mutually agreed to not live together before marriage :) it would be easier to just live with him but we are more traditional when it comes to dating so we'd rather go the hard route.

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IndicationOver t1_j5umejq wrote

> we are more traditional when it comes to dating so we'd rather go the hard route.

You mean to say non-traditional?

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chickennugar OP t1_j5ut1br wrote

honestly if you can't answer the original question then why are you still here? stop judging other people's lives and maybe get a life of your own if you have enough time to pick through mine like you know what's best for a relationship you know nothing about. traditionally couples moved in after marriage. or at least that's what I've been taught. sure maybe it's a dead practice because society came along and said it's dumb but that doesn't change how I feel. I see benefits in living apart during the dating stage. so what's it to you? damn. all i asked for was apartment advice 💀

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gordita_vonteese t1_j60pqph wrote

I'm going to guess they mean traditional in their culture, rather than yours

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chickennugar OP t1_j5urjoa wrote

no?

not practicing modern norms doesn't equal non traditional.

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zenlittleplatypus t1_j5s75ym wrote

I've had good luck on the Facebook page Bristol Talks. Just don't take them too seriously for much else.

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igetmoneyyuhuurd t1_j5yocyu wrote

Your 19 and trust some boy you met online across the country.. just saying it’s a dangerous world

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chickennugar OP t1_j5yqwzb wrote

we were both homeschooled and met through a private social forum our highschool has. we've known eachother for almost three years, have done lots of calls and what not, and even met in person last november. we're trying to close the distance so we can date in person. and he will live in his own place incase we don't work out. he isn't "just some boy". you sound like every other arrogant person that doesn't think ldrs are valid relationships. and ftr he's only half the country away :)

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