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Underarmoury89 t1_j1a87g4 wrote

I went to Kingswood-Oxford I'm west Hartford. I hated and loved at the same time. Few things I noticed and heard about private schools in CT (not Catholic because those are different)

  1. If it's a boarding school it can be difficult to be a day student at one.
  2. It sucked at times to be a finical aid student also I feel like it helped me stay mot grounded
  3. Alcohol, drugs, sex is going to be everywhere at private schools you have kids who get an allowance and don't have anything else to spend it on ... Like at any school it will depend on the kids ECT
  4. Educationally it way better prepared me for college then my peers at school and friends around me

I do think at both and public schools it will be about your kid, their friends and how you raised them.

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thenisaidbitch t1_j1bhg3p wrote

I went to school there too and agree with this! I never went to any drug fueled parties when I went but a few years later my friends brother attended and he’s still in and out of rehab 20 years later. School was filled with coke by then.

Parking lot is chock full of luxury cars- as a regular kid it felt very weird to see so many expensive cars. My folks would never have bought me a freaking Mercedes at 16! I remember one girl got a Porsche and totaled it within a week. It was a very weird place to be after starting out in public school!

That being said, it challenged me in ways public school didn’t. There was too much free time and I got lazy, there is rarely free time at KO and the expectations are high (both from peers and teachers) so it helps promote good habits and work ethic.

I debated sending my kid to a prep school but I’ve heard so much about substance abuse and bullying since I left I’m not sure it’s the right call.

Another consideration is cost! When I went it was $20k per year but other activities were easily another $1k. Can’t imagine how much it is nowadays! Not sure it’s worth it anymore

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