Most meetings are open to everyone men and women. There’s different meetings everyday and lots of variety, you will definitely find ones you like if you look around and try some. I forget what it is but there’s a website that will give you all the meetings and times in any area. If you go to a meeting and say what you just said you will get more support than you know what to do with. You’re in newtown, try the sober center in Danbury if that still exists and there used to be a good meeting on deer hill. Dont go to the west conn young peoples group until you have yourself together a bit. FYI: have been out of the area for a long time