You posted your original thoughts a mere four hours after the accident and you say you went by the scene this morning (a day later) and saw no skid marks. I assume you did this out of a morbid scene of justification for your insensitive comment yesterday. I don’t think anyone is for distracted driving even though most of us have done it. Phone/music/eating/driving/smoking/yelling at the kids. Try and put yourself in someone else’s shoes. How would you like to read a stranger blaming your family member before any facts are known? That was my point.