You judged what led to the crash with zero facts. That’s the umbrage. It’s likely family/friends of any of the three dead saw your comment. Is it that hard to imagine the pain your careless thought may have caused them? Next time, how about waiting for some facts before judging with your thoughts.

You posted your original thoughts a mere four hours after the accident and you say you went by the scene this morning (a day later) and saw no skid marks. I assume you did this out of a morbid scene of justification for your insensitive comment yesterday. I don’t think anyone is for distracted driving even though most of us have done it. Phone/music/eating/driving/smoking/yelling at the kids. Try and put yourself in someone else’s shoes. How would you like to read a stranger blaming your family member before any facts are known? That was my point.