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stinkstankstunkiii t1_jdc3u7g wrote

hope she gets time in prison. Ppl need to be aware of women taking advantage of kids/teens,etc.

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Prudent-Ball2698 t1_jdcdtb1 wrote

Chances are they'll send her to classes for the shot, which never helps. Hope she sees her time in prison but I doubt she will

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Darkling5499 t1_jdcekcd wrote

I'm curious if it's actual sexual assault, or the continued trend of the news refusing to say rape when its female teacher + male student.

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jaydecay123 OP t1_jdcevxz wrote

There is no continued trend in the news. We literally provide information to the public straight from the police department. If police call it a "sexual assault" we call it a sexual assault.

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No-Coast-Punk t1_jdcf4hm wrote

How long 'till the teacher shortage means a school district picks her up?

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blondiemandie38 t1_jdcgj4l wrote

These comments are so gross. Sheā€™s a predator and took advantage of a literal kid after getting him drunk šŸ¤®šŸ¤®

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gwidj t1_jdciqfc wrote

holy shit i went to school with her šŸ’€

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qtg t1_jdcjwq1 wrote

nice

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Pancrat t1_jdck2in wrote

Happened at Cummings beachā€¦ bit on the nose

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Jackers83 t1_jdckci0 wrote

Yea, youā€™re definitely not wrong. Itā€™s just a small slice of the prototypical masculine, strong ego, endlessly attempting to add notches of conquest to the sword hilt that is our life. Itā€™s been ingrained in us guys since forever. It really has I think. Movies, tv shows, comics, video games. Itā€™s working.

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B1NG_P0T t1_jdcmz3l wrote

Lol, I'm a straight chick.

I get that if you're someone who not only clearly has a hard time getting laid but who is also fairly immature and lacks critical thinking skills as well as any semblance of empathy and decency, a situation like this might seem potentially appealing, but you might want to rethink siding with a sexual predator. Can't really think of any reason why someone would want to defend one, unless they were one themselves.

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red_purple_red t1_jdcod92 wrote

Lol house arrest. In order for a man in her position to get that they'd need to be a billionaire with access to reams of blackmail info on rich and powerful individuals.

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BluenotesBb t1_jdcqjj7 wrote

That trend actually started with defense attorneys, they believe the word RAPE, prejudices jurors automatically against the perp. This is why it is nearly always called sexual assault. It's been going on for at least a decade and started with attorneys not the press.
And it's been done to female victims as well as male. It has nothing to do with gender just protecting the one accused.

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buddboy t1_jdcqufp wrote

I mean I would hope not again I don't like people making light of these kinds of things and the double standard and all that but it's such a good episode and I enjoy sick jokes

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Extra_Mango_8547 t1_jdctle4 wrote

No they wouldn't. It happens all the time. The only reason why headlines like these get your attention is because it's a woman doing it to males.

Men finally can point the finger and act like a saint.

I'm not saying what she did was right. It was a really wrong thing to do, period.

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gwidj t1_jdcv085 wrote

i didnā€™t know her that well. if i remember i think we had maybe 1 or 2 classes together? but it is pretty shocking since she didnā€™t seem like the type

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osrs_kwanoo t1_jdcv4f1 wrote

OP really likes posting News 12 links

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netscorer1 t1_jdd2ycl wrote

There is a big difference. Males are physically much stronger then females. Even a teen after few beers should be able to resist assault of a skinny woman, no prob. But if he let it run the course, was it really an assault?

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Page-This t1_jdd6d3t wrote

Yes. Physical dominance isnā€™t some prerequisite for doing something grossā€¦there are all sorts of power dynamics. In this case, it was the age of the victim.

To illustrate, a minor who posts nude selfies of their own volition doesnā€™t absolve downloaders from child porn charges.

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netscorer1 t1_jddbbkv wrote

A casual acquaintance at the beach and few beers shared together should not provide basis for power dynamics to develop and become a factor. Age difference makes it a statutory rape, but thereā€™s a huge difference in a young girl being assaulted by a dominant male at the beach and a teen boy not fighting back when he has all the opportunity and necessary strength to defend himself.

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Extra_Mango_8547 t1_jddbnbe wrote

> misandrist

Oh no! I wouldn't want to hurt any feelings here.

Men don't point fingers, because they are saints.

Women overreact about everything. They're all crazy and sex hungry and on their periods, hunting down young men for prey!

Is that easier to read? Because it seems like this feed is full of that. We don't want to correct people when their speaking nonsense, it's just easier to hit the vote buttons.

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handsonabirdbody t1_jddc4kx wrote

Can we have one post about a male sexual assault victim without comments saying ā€œpeople would care if the victim was female!ā€ Because no they donā€™t always! And do these commenters even care about this victim and other male victims? Or do they just want to complain about girls and women have it so much easier? Where is the actual concern for this poor kid? (Edited bc I hit post too soon)

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Extra_Mango_8547 t1_jddesbe wrote

Wow. I'm going to now assume you're a male then? Or associate as being one?

You, my dear neighbor, made a comment that was extremely generalized and grossly incorrect. My one snarky comment got yourself all insulted? To generalize that most of the men commenting on this isn't at least partially, deep down, a little relieved to finally share that "shame on" you spotlight with a female? Honestly, I would be at least a little bit and I wouldn't blame a single male that did. What do I take issue with is making comments that are grossly understating what a female has to deal with every single day and how they have been raised in this society and how they are dealt with.

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maybe_little_pinch t1_jddihab wrote

Always happens unless the woman is absolutely grotesque. The report could have included weapons, being tied down, etc.

For the record, both males and females can become sexually aroused during these events completely against their will. Males often report not fighting back for fear of hurting their assailant, not being believed, or being accused themselves.

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Page-This t1_jddkrhx wrote

> We don't want to correct people when their speaking nonsense, it's just easier to hit the vote buttons.

This is a funny way to react to a comment that sought to correct some nonsenseā€¦but I guess Iā€™ll vote for good measure too.

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Page-This t1_jddm804 wrote

Your initial statement is the context for this back and forth:

>But if he let it run the course, was it really an assault?

Yes, is the answer.

Muscles have nothing to do with itā€¦but, of course, we know nothing of the boyā€™s muscles so it really is a waste of time to generalize on gender differences of perps/victims in terms of physical features.

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Page-This t1_jddnadh wrote

Careless or, perhaps, accidental misandry in your earlier comment.

But now I also feel the need to correct your misplaced angerā€¦Iā€™m just trying to help strengthen your argument by cleaning up distractions.

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bunkerbash t1_jddv9ng wrote

I gotta say I think it depends. I worked with this bastard for a couple years and he 100% seemed like the type. The arrest went down after id left that company but when I saw the news I wasnā€™t shocked at all. He was aggressive, handsy, demeaning towards the women in the office, tried to encourage similar behavior from the other men in the office, and tried to turn everything into a sexual joke. Yuck

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Arion185 t1_jddzs4b wrote

This will make zero news because sheā€™s a woman. There is beginning to be an awful trend of adult woman getting a slap on the wrist for similar crimes.

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Extra_Mango_8547 t1_jde9vl7 wrote

It's actually not hard at all...and yet you keep judging me. I'm angry, I am careless with my words, my life is hard. I appreciate your projections and/or your creativeness in all of this. I would possibly recommend some time meditating on what's so troubling for you. I find this quite curious.

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puffytacoz t1_jderqpi wrote

Seems like we could eliminate two problems at once. Pair these women up with potential incel shooters. Problems solved, jail, and shooting avoided.

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Funny_stuff554 t1_jdf84hg wrote

If one thing happens more than the other doesnā€™t mean itā€™s worse. Most men donā€™t report sexual assault. I was touched by my baby sitter but I have never told anyone. This is the first time I am actually talking about it online because itā€™s Reddit and itā€™s anonymous in a sense that my pic and name is not on my profile. Most men just donā€™t report it because ā€œYou are a man so be a manā€. I have also been asked for sex inappropriately at work and nobody knows it except for me and 2 of my coworkers who were there. So you šŸ‘ donā€™t šŸ‘ hear it šŸ‘ everyday šŸ‘ because most men donā€™t report it. There I explained it. Btw in my case both suspects were women not men.

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Extra_Mango_8547 t1_jdfbdmf wrote

Thank you. Thank you for sharing that. I know more men that have be sexually assaulted than I would have imagined in my normal day to day life. Itā€™s horrifying. Iā€™ve talked (anonymously) with men that wanted a young girl. Itā€™s scary how many people have been traumatized at an early age, regardless of being male or female. Itā€™s something that shouldnā€™t be normalized. This awful behavior transcends male or female. My only point is that the happy band wagon of comments saying if it was a man doing it to girls we would all be mad. Iā€™m mad regardless of genders. No one should victimize another for their own pleasure against someone elseā€™s. Canā€™t we all stop throwing stones at each other on this topic and turn our attention to people (regardless of sex) that take advantage of children period?

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RoundPlum t1_jdnhg2o wrote

That's insane. What the hell is wrong with people there's another case where there's an 83-year-old Rich socialite that was caught. Filming people for sexual gratification that lived in Greenwich. On the same page

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