Submitted by DingDong50001 t3_11y1xtr in Connecticut

This is the only state I’ve lived in where people consistently swerve into the oncoming lane when there’s a UPS truck or other stopped vehicle obstructing their lane. I’ve gotten used to just slowing down when the opposite lane is blocked to make way. Is there some secret law providing right of way over oncoming traffic?

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Sofa_king1175 t1_jd5wk8t wrote

Nope. People just drive like dipshits around here.

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RededHaid t1_jd5wqfp wrote

These asshats think that if their lane is blocked, they now deserve half of the remaining surface. They just assume you will slide over in your newly reduced pathway. There's no blaming this on RI, MA, or NY drivers either. It's all on CT and three drivers from NJ.

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tobiasrfunke t1_jd5yz9p wrote

Just like defensive driving, there is offensive driving. Some people take advantage of those who really don't want to get into an accident. What are you doing to do if they take up your lane, hit em? They know you'll just stop.

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Independent_Source97 t1_jd5z82f wrote

I just wrote about this on another post. I refuse to swerve into a utility pole or hit a parked car because of these idiots. I stay in my lane, slow or stop, and lean on the horn.

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kaw027 t1_jd69gcn wrote

Bold of you to assume drivers in this state care about right of ways

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tuss11agee t1_jd6ibfu wrote

Everyone slows down and you kind of take turns. Delivery trucks on a 2 lane road creates one way traffic around them. Be prepared to stop, but if your line is going, then go. Cars should not be expected to blindly follow a UPS truck and stop every 10 feet. You go around when you see a gap, and those approaching should slow and be aware that some cars might be taking their opportunity to overtake the delivery truck.

Like, work together. Stop classifying drivers as asshats for no reason! Do you expect a line of 20 cars to stay behind a mail truck forever?!?

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SonicBoom6 t1_jd6k6em wrote

The secret is improvise driving. Not everyone on the road is the same in skills, time, awareness, attitude, and purpose. If the whole situation can not be adjust, adjust yourself or start coordinating with the surrounding and improvised when safe to do so.

Do not assume the driver on the opposing lane will coordinate an improvising effort. Some people are dimwit and rather collide with you than move over when possible to make room for the opposing lane to continue flowing.

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DingDong50001 OP t1_jd6ksqg wrote

I expect people to follow common sense traffic rules and wait until the oncoming lane is clear enough to drive around the stopped vehicle. I do it, every single time. I’m not talking about a traffic jam, I’m talking about people going 45 into the oncoming lane also doing 45, instead of waiting 5 seconds.

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Middledamitten t1_jd720wz wrote

CT drivers have no understanding of right of way and are stupid/opportunistic jerks.

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bladerunner_203 t1_jd7575w wrote

Really depends on if theirs adequate room so that both vehicles can drive through safely, if it’s a wide enough road and both can than it’s fine. If it’s not than you should always stop and wait for oncoming traffic to clear before proceeding.

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Fragileino t1_jd7fppn wrote

Learning to drive in NYC taught me street lines are more of a suggestion than a rule.

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Burwylf t1_jd7l27c wrote

The expected behavior in the oncoming lane is to slow down (not stop), and use the breakdown lane/margin or whatever you want to call it to make room (in the case of a truck blocking half the lane)

In the case the truck is blocking the whole lane, it's typical too stop, wait for a clear shot, and then go, if oncoming cars appear they stop, the next car that would leave their lane stops, and the oncoming cars resume their right off way when clear...

Pretty sure it's an unwritten protocol, but that's how it would work smoothly and preserve right of way. You can't account for people breaking the protocol though, there's always that one guy... People have trouble when two lanes merge to one as well, you're supposed to create a space for a car between every car, and once you get to the merge spot it can be smooth like a zipper closing, but there's always that one guy that won't leave a space and stops traffic in the other lane.

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TimeTraveler3056 t1_jd7s09e wrote

If you're behind the truck, technically, the other direction has the right of way and if they're paying attention they'll give you more room so you can pass too.

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darthirule t1_jd8cvwn wrote

Same with garbage trucks! I was stuck in a line cause this person didnt want to pass the garbage truck. Finally the car in front of me said fuck this and passed the other driver and garbage truck and everyone did the same thing and pass both vehicles, including a school bus behind me.

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DingDong50001 OP t1_jd8opmh wrote

I learned to drive in NYC too. Street lines are a suggestion, but the black Lincoln Town Car in the opposite lane is a rule. And that guy doesn’t care. NYC driving is wild, but people usually drive with a little purpose, if that makes sense.

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DingDong50001 OP t1_jd8pnc0 wrote

Yes. Thank you. If it’s heavy traffic moving slowly, or there’s plenty of room then I have no problem, we can work together. I’m talking about when I’m doing 45, with nobody behind me, and the other person is suddenly head on with me going 45 also, instead of just slowing down a tiny bit and waiting till I’m clear.

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DingDong50001 OP t1_jd8qllw wrote

That’s not what I’m asking man. I’m talking about people going full speed into the oncoming lane, instead of slowing down a tiny bit for one or two cars to pass and waiting till it’s clear. Just assuming that oncoming traffic will slow down, so you don’t have to slow down at all, when it’s your lane that’s blocked.

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