RxstySp00ns OP t1_jaetjgk wrote on February 28, 2023 at 10:37 PM

Reply to comment by Mixedbagostuff in How do you know if someone is actually toxic if they insist they are always joking? by RxstySp00ns

I fell like they might know how what they say makes me feel, but they think making it a "joke" will stop me from saying anything about it.

Mixedbagostuff t1_jaetsds wrote on February 28, 2023 at 10:39 PM

Make it clear. Sounds like it’s time to speak up, as uncomfortable as it may be. People like this need to be checked. It also sounds like you know deep down they aren’t a good fit for you, and that’s okay.