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Mixedbagostuff t1_jaesb61 wrote

Tell them how you feel about the “jokes”. If they make you uncomfortable, ask them to stop. If they don’t stop, it’s up to you to decide if you want to be around someone like that.

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RxstySp00ns OP t1_jaetjgk wrote

I fell like they might know how what they say makes me feel, but they think making it a "joke" will stop me from saying anything about it.

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Mixedbagostuff t1_jaetsds wrote

Make it clear. Sounds like it’s time to speak up, as uncomfortable as it may be. People like this need to be checked. It also sounds like you know deep down they aren’t a good fit for you, and that’s okay.

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