Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pj1rz wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:52 PM

Reply to comment by Mediumokrahmom in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514

Maybe. I’m actively trying to get over her though. It’s just not as easy as you are trying to depict

Mediumokrahmom t1_j6pjmb6 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:56 PM

It’s been a year. I’m not saying it’s easy, but it has to be done.

Perhaps a therapist can help you. You’ve been doing this on your own and can’t get over her. I’ve been there. I know it’s hard not to beat yourself up, but you have to do it for yourself