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Mediumokrahmom t1_j6pgtv4 wrote

Reply to comment by Swimming-Rough-9514 in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514

No. It isn’t. Plenty of people connect immediately. Chemistry is chemistry. You won’t connect with anyone because you can’t get over her

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Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pj1rz wrote

Maybe. I’m actively trying to get over her though. It’s just not as easy as you are trying to depict

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Mediumokrahmom t1_j6pjmb6 wrote

It’s been a year. I’m not saying it’s easy, but it has to be done.

Perhaps a therapist can help you. You’ve been doing this on your own and can’t get over her. I’ve been there. I know it’s hard not to beat yourself up, but you have to do it for yourself

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