Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6p7hu8 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:35 PM

Reply to comment by Mediumokrahmom in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514

I did though. I just have problems with vulnerability and so keeping them at a “distance” was more about not letting myself get hurt than anything to do w how much I loved them.

Ended up way more hurt because then you have regrets about not giving enough and that’s why it failed