Submitted by I-love-rainbows t3_1283rer in AskReddit
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Mindless-Storage-698 t1_jeh1zhm wrote
Probably ask was there something about it she had wanted to try or was I not enough for her?
JessiePeteWhite t1_jeh201x wrote
It’s not that big of a deal
Lily_of_the_deep t1_jeh205l wrote
I'd ask her to come to my front please
Fish_Fucker2136 t1_jeh22fn wrote
Probably nothing as long as she doesn’t have a porn addiction
HighlyOffensive10 t1_jeh22m2 wrote
I wouldn't care. I'd be a little bothered that they felt the need to hide that from me.
Apprehensive-Lead975 t1_jeh237d wrote
Communication is key. Talk it out and respect boundaries.
soiledsanchez t1_jeh23g6 wrote
If she’s never asked me and I never asked her I wouldn’t care if I found out
DavosLostFingers t1_jeh23g8 wrote
Talk about it and see what happens
Fish_Fucker2136 t1_jeh24p4 wrote
Parking_Librarian926 t1_jeh24zw wrote
Good for her. There’s no need for a conversation and it’s polite to let her have her privacy
I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh252u wrote
Ratakoa t1_jeh26k9 wrote
That's a deal breaker. We have a no porn agreement since neither of us like it.
0000-username t1_jeh28l6 wrote
She often tells me, sometimes shares links to what she's watching. It would be weird if she thought she had to do anything behind my back
I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh294i wrote
But like, how do you bring it up in conversation? My bf doesn’t know I watch porn. It would be awkward to tell him.
bigshoe_cansada t1_jeh2c9k wrote
Since I know she hates this type of content, I would try my best to understand what's going on.
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Lily_of_the_deep t1_jeh2eey wrote
sikki_nixx t1_jeh2ers wrote
Rotate my head like an owl
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I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh2fop wrote
Ty. That’s how I feel too. I really don’t think it’s something that needs to be openly communicated to your partner.
Udja272 t1_jeh2kdg wrote
The chances are high that he does it too. If you want you can just ask him. Or not. But it certainly is completely normal
DanteCubit3000 t1_jeh2kkg wrote
I'd tell her that she doesn't have to hide it. I'd also want to discuss if she feels unsatisfied. And if she does, what can we can do to change it.
animeisrealokay t1_jeh2kow wrote
Tell her not to fuck up my search history with hers
I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh2pk2 wrote
Can I ask why you have that rule? Simply because you don’t like it? Or do you both consider it cheating or immoral?
spook7886 t1_jeh2skl wrote
"Here's mr buzz, magic wand. Get comfy and let me behind ya. We can watch this together, talk about whatever pops up!"
I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh2zso wrote
What if she secretly liked it but was too embarrassed to tell you? How would you handle it?
MulberryBrown t1_jeh36uu wrote
Watching porn isn’t the same as developing personal relationships. I would be more upset with my girlfriend flirting with another person to be honest.
Dangerous_Grab_1809 t1_jeh39b6 wrote
I would say “hold on , when did I get a girlfriend?”
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DeltaMx11 t1_jeh3bmb wrote
Finally, now we can watch porn together!
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bigshoe_cansada t1_jeh3wip wrote
We were best friends even before we started dating, so we've had conversations about topics that some may consider taboo. However, if she were to develop an interest in pornography or something similar, I would need some time to process it. Given that we are both women, it is a... sensitive subject.
CR318 t1_jeh3yyu wrote
Depending on the kind.
Parking_Librarian926 t1_jeh3zt6 wrote
Did something weird happen where it was suggested you shouldn’t have that privacy?
I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh40rm wrote
What if she wants to watch fury porn?
RathGodofWar t1_jeh44tv wrote
top-shop-tyrant t1_jeh4593 wrote
Why do you feel the need to tell him? Is it a mutual term of your relationship that you guys don't watch porn? Almost everyone does. I don't see a reason to bring it up out of nowhere
I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh45f2 wrote
Understand. Thanks for the explanation and happy cake day!
RathGodofWar t1_jeh461h wrote
Watch with her.
Silver-Syndicate t1_jeh491g wrote
"Why didn't you invite me though?" Like, seriously, I get private time, but I wanna watch once in a while. Overall I wouldn't give a damn, I would just like to be invited
Daintylittlesole t1_jeh4d97 wrote
It’s me, I am the porn. 🤷🏽♀️
DeltaMx11 t1_jeh4grh wrote
Finally, now we can watch furry porn together!
bigshoe_cansada t1_jeh4hqu wrote
Thanks! 🎈
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Why is this oddly specific 💀
FoldedaMillionTimes t1_jeh4k2z wrote
Why would you need to? You didn't need him to tell you he watches it, right? What's the difference?
Kyadagum_Dulgadee t1_jeh4m9i wrote
Not care
grahag t1_jeh4n38 wrote
I'd have her and my wife get together and show me what they like!
ads5531 t1_jeh4p2b wrote
I would ask her for recommendations
Donald-Pump t1_jeh4vtn wrote
Nothing, because that's a normal thing to do.
AmpedEnding t1_jeh51nx wrote
We normally share with each other, but if they've got something they wanna hide, I'm fine waiting until they're comfortable sharing, even if it doesn't ever happen.
Ratakoa t1_jeh59d3 wrote
A little of both. Funny how that's being down voted though.
shmozzfinish t1_jeh5bay wrote
I'd respect her privacy.
classic4life t1_jeh5fng wrote
Just send him a link to something you're really into, or maybe something you'd want to try with him.
Modern_Devil t1_jeh5g6v wrote
How did I find that out? Did I walk in on her bashing the button to a filthy John Holmes clip? Did she mean for me to walk in and find her like that?
I’m definitely going to have to explore this and maybe practice some crazy porn moves on her.
I-love-rainbows OP t1_jeh5lsk wrote
Not exactly but I’m a pretty private person and I don’t want to share everything about myself with the person I’m dating.
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