You’re reading but you aren’t understanding. She’s trying to make a point here. She’s got the time and patience and kindness to handle your three comments with a lot of care and respect, but you aren’t reciprocating. So please take a moment and actually pay attention here. Like for real. Stop thinking for a second a listen: this interaction right here, the way you’re handling it is the problem. Not because you are an inherently flawed person but because that’s just a product of how you were brought up and the countless influences on your life. This is the problem. You don’t have to be a part of it, but right now you are. Okay? You’re being a dick.